Is it me or people getting less manners ?
Let me just start out by saying I know without a friggin’ doubt my son is No Angel ! These past two months have been pure H#*# for me ! Let me start off with the kid that came to stay with his Dad who is shackin’ up with one of my neighbors ! First the kid seemed okay then he started doing things to my son like spitting water in his face and running in the garage and shutting the door ! Then he was calling my girls really naughty names and my girls went and said something to the Dad and he said “If you don’t like it go home !” Well then little boy came back and said sorry ! Okay fine we will try to let it go ! Then he started doing other things and then my hubby told him not to come over again ! Well when my son was outside they began playing again and then he did something else ! Well my hubby just told him again to not come over ! We set up our 4ft inflatable pool and had to get a new chlorinator so we did and right after we had had that thing for a week it disappeared ! We look under all the linings and all around the yard and it was nowhere to be found and a neighbor said she had seen him riding up and down the street all day ! my hubby asked him if he had taken it and he of course said “No!” Well funny enough it appeared back in our pool two days later and what’s even more interesting is that it was a different one ! Well that kid kept coming back and my son wanted to play so I let them play and the kid told my son that my hubby was a big jerk and yeah it was wrong my kid clocked him ! I made him apologize to them and had a nice confrontation with his Dad ! We both came to the conclusion keep your kid away from mine and we won’t have this problem again ! Now on a totally different level my doctor is leaving practice and I can’t find someone that takes my insurance another big headache ! Now this other neighbor accused my son of scratching his car with his bike when he wasn’t anywhere near the car but funny enough he let’s his friggin’ 4 yr. old climb all over the car , take a crap in the yard then he comes over to my house and pees on the side of the house ! Can anyone see where my depression is stemming from? I told my girls and my son they are no longer able to play with that family anymore ! I guess it is coming to the point where you have to walk with your kid every minute until they graduate from high school ! There are so many things buggin’ me right now I can’t even begin to tell you guys ! Please pray that God helps our family soon ! I feel like I am in a sinking ship and it’s going down quick ! I just need some good things happen soon because I’m not so sure how much more I can take ! I am trying hard to raise my kids right and it gets harder and harder every day ! All I can say is please pray because i am crying as I sit here with heart breaking and feeling alone !
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ohhh girl,
my heart hurts for you–its just too much stress. Need tissues?
The issues you are having with the kids and the Dad is just crazy.
It sounds like your in desperate need of a break.
Sending lots of prayers and hugs your way…
HI HI KIMMI!
Been a while since I saw you online girl.
WOW, that’s a lot!
That kid needs to stay home and leave your family alone…..but then again, I can’t give advice about kids - I have none and no experience to share with you.
Hang on Kimmi, this to will pass girl.
Wow. Sounds like a family of trouble makers. Sorry you have to deal with that! Ignore them as much as possible… or if at all possible, move.
No, its not you. It is the world we live in. I remember the days when you said yes maam and yes sir to anyone older than you or your momma & daddy whacked you a good one. We need the world to go back to the good old fashioned values.
Its hard with kids. They mimic what they see & hear. Its obvious these kids are seeing some troubling things. I think you are doing the right thing by keeping your kiddos away from the others.
hang in there.
Oh Kimmi, so sorry you have so much going on right now ((HUGS)) I don’t have any kids, so I can’t really give you any advise, but I think staying away from that family sounds like the right thing to do.
I know it’s easier said then done, but try to spend no time on thinking about all the things that make you sad, instead spend all the time thinking about and doing things that make you happy. 
((HUGS))
I am sure everything will work out for you. It always does hun
I’ll keep you in my prayers hun
It sounds like those kids have some serious issues. I would keep your kids away from them. There are always bad neighborhood kids it seems. People don’t know how to raise their kids right.
Just keep hanging in there
Kimmi I don’t know what else to say, but you are doing the best you can. Just keep the kids away from each other. I have lived something similar and to tell you the truth we moved! I couldn’t take it anymore. We lived in an apartment complex and every time something happened my kids got blamed. I loved it once we moved to the country and I didn’t have close neighbors.
Hang in there girl!
Love ya
HUGS
(((((((((((Kimmi))))))))))))) Yes keep your kids away from them. The parents need to wise up. Hugs!